i have tried talking to him but it makes no difference he is now in the process of taking me to court for custordy of my children , using my failling to control them amongst other stuff he has come up with . all this going of has made me depressed too just cant seem to do rite from doing wrong with the kid or him . thank u for ur advice i really appreciate it be nice if life went the way we want wouldnt it .

I can't believe your Ex husband!! He has got a major problem.Does he pay maintenance? Have you got a solicitor? I honestly can't see the court siding with him. My ex took me to court back in 2004 because I tried to commit suicide and couldn't cope, but the judge sided with me and actually got me some help.
Keep in touch with me, if you don't mind!

my x doesnt pay anythng as he doesnt work . i have a solicitor and just waiting now for a court date so fingers crossed .he jst makes my hard life evn harder gets very hard to cope sometimes . will keep in touch and keep u updated thnk u for ur time and replys x