NO!!! The first thing you should do is get your butt to a lawyer, file for divorce, and then file a restraining order against your ex. If you don't start keeping a paper trail with the authorities regarding his actions, you'll be the one in trouble with the law for hiding "his daughter" from him. LEt it be known that he isn't fit to be alone with her, and that you don't feel it's in her best interest. But, I can guarantee, if he tries the legal system with you still being legally married, they'll wipe it off without a thought. If he's such a creep, why aren't you divorced yet? You can find places online and even fill out the papers yourself! Don't let this guy scare you into sending your baby off to live with a relative. My guess is that she probably would rather be with you, and you with her,than shipping her off to a relative. She needs you, especially if she doesn't have him in her life. Take a stand, and file the necessary reports!!!!!!