i think some house rules needs to be set, and make sure they'r not broken.For example swearing should not be permitted and should not be tolerated.yes it's nice to be a friend but children needs guidance most of all,they can make friends by themselves, just be sure what kind of friends they are and that they are ones you approve of.When setting rules and correct your children be sure to be fair and always ask you self after correction if you were fair so that next time maybe you'll handle it differently. be firm and try to let them feel the consequences of their actions, it works much better than punishment. good luck:)

Hi! I have custody of my 11 year old grand daughter and when I read your message, it was like I wrote it. Could you please tell me how things are going, and if you have any advice I could sure use it..Cathy