Elizabeth do you have shares in the 1-2-3 magic tapes?
Your advice seems to be somewhat similar for a whole host of different problems.
Mums also need practical advice not bible spoutings.

thanks for your well thought out reply, it has helped and I will get that book.I to at school was called bossy but then it turned into great leadership skills which was recongised at high school.Im hoping this will be for my daughter to.again thank you.