this is odd, i had the same problem - - how i taught her to sleep in her own room - - i started sleeping with her in her room and slowly but surely reducing the amount of time i slept with her (by slipping out of the bed before she woke up in the morning - - earlier and earlier) until she went to bed with a quick routine........i also figured out that my bedtime routine was too much - - she learned to crave the attention and the tucking in process just got longer and longer. So i cut out the stories and music.