Hi, im writting to ask if you fan give me advice (ive never done this before) my daughter is nine years old, and her behaviour is a nightmare and its only with me.it sounds so trivual, but anytime I ask her to do anything she always says no and starts arguing and the cheek and answering back is a major problem,then I get angry and the whole situation starts into a break out of shouting, im at my wits end, ut happens everyday it upsets me and the family, I dont know how to go about solving this problem. I take things from her etc and dont let her go to clubs when its really bad. Any advice I would be extremly for, thank, you.