Please don't let her think of herself as the naughtiest girl.. or she'll feel eventually she'll have to be.
This teacher sounds a little stern!!
Good luck.

i spoke to the teacher, and in fact it was'nt as bad as it seemed she only sent her out for a few minutes and she even explained the lesson before. i even spoke to the head, it seems that she is very impulsive but nothing so bad. the teacher even agreed to mark with a smiley on the reward notebook instead of chart which she'll bring back home so that i can see what happened during the day too. well we'll see from here now thanks to all.

That sounds promising!!