Thank you, Deb! I'm not hurt that I moved away when I was young, I'm hurt that I am held responsible for moving when I had no control over it. My family just can't seem to be happy that I am happy. I like what you said though, you have a different relationship with your family now and you have to accept it. I just can't seem to get that in my head...I need to accept the way it is. I wish you luck, I know how much it hurts for me living far away. I imagine it's even tougher when they live closer.