I totally understand where you are comming from Finn.
how old are the children? Are they old enogh to decide for themselves if they want to visit more often with the bf/dad?
I am not going to suggest that you keep the kids away from him because that has its way of biting you in the end, but I would really look into supervised visitations. I cant imagine a court giving a man like that any thing more. If he suddenly wants to be super daddy, I would make sure the court makes him pay the mdical bills for his children,as well as every day cost.
