It may be nothing but a phase, the things you mentioned dont seem to out of the ordinary. Just remember you are the adult and you have to come to her, she wont automaticly come to you with love and understanding if she isnt recieving it.

Some times as parents we get so offended at our childrens behavior and treat them as though they were of equal cognitive and behavioral skills as we are.Its so easy to feel like they are doing something to us...when thats not their goal at all, they really dont like to be in chaos.

Hello Debbie

I hope you don’t mind me approaching you but I think I might be able to help. I work for ITV on a parenting programme whose aim is to offer advice to parents like yourself. It sounds like your little girl is experiencing some behaviour problems, which can be addressed.

Our programme follows a proven child behavioural course. It's not about shaming bad parents it’s about people who are essentially good parents but who are struggling with challenging behaviour. The unique thing about our series is that from the children’s point of view it’s very non-aggressive. This course isn’t for children – it’s for mums and dads to learn how handle difficult behaviour and ultimately stop it.

The first series of Driving Mum and dad Mad was received very well. In fact the Home Office funded a study into the effects of watching the programme and found 3/4 of parents in the study reported significant improvements in their child’s behaviour, their parenting and in their family life it’s a series we are very proud of.

If you are interested in finding out more about the programme do call me I’ll be happy to talk about the parenting course and how we plan to film the documentary with absolutely no pressure on you to take part. My direct work number is 020 7633 2801.

Best wishes, and again I do hope you don't mind me approaching you.

Nicola