I read your message with my jaw on the floor! It seems to me that the staff at the nursery your daughter attends just can't be bothered to give her any of their time unless she behaves like a little angel all the time. Getting you to come in for the last half hour is bad enough, but making you read her a story on your own is awful, as is their half hearted attempt at a sticker chart. My son is four and also goes to nursery for 2 and a half hours a day, he is a lively lad, as are several other children and the staff don't have any problems controlling them. If i were you, i'd move your little one to a nursery where the staff are capable and caring before she gets to feel like a complete outsider. Good luck