OMG!!! and I thought my ex was selfish and manipulative! He doesn't sound like the kinda guy you can have a chat with...I have writtin eighty things, and then hit backspace to get rid of it all. I really feel for you, but every idea I write down looks ridiculous once its written... I would talk to the 2 eldest boys and explain how inappropriate it is to go there... but what 15yo with a motel room is going to listen to that!!!??? Stay strong and keep facts... courts are not very interested in feelings, but facts they can deal with...get to court as fast as you can and provide proof of this mans inept parenting. I wish you the very best luck, and hang in there commonsense will prevail.....that wasn't very good was it? I hope things go well for you and your family
