Thanks so much for your replys i agree with everything that has been said and i can see now that i am being desprate maybe because i am insecure.I feel quite sorry for my daughter for how i am behaving and i will take a step back and accept that all children are different .I do know deep down that she does love me .Thanks again your replys have put everything in perspective for me

Hi again,

I understand how you feel, I can be rather smothering with my youngest, more or less mauling him at times....insecurity plays a big part, as I didnt feel loved as a child I think that also is a big factor.

I think also you must feel as though you're not doing a good job, because of the feedback you get from her. Don't worry too much, you're obviously a very caring parent, and don't feel too sorry for your daughter either, she is very lucky to have a loving mum, even if its a bit much at times!! Better that than one who neglects their children.

Keep smiling!

Love Liz x