but you are a part of his life and therefore should be part of his kids life.

when is he going to stop being dictated to by his ex. this isnt a situation that can continue indefinitely.

i mean what is he going to do? introduce his son to yours as just some random boy off the street and not introduce his son to you ever???

willow
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well thats all part of what were trying to sort out its not just that he introduces me its that he does the whole lot we introduce the kids and introduces me.

oh, that makes more sense!

lol!

might be a lot to take in at once. could u be introduced to ur partners son and then introduce your son to his another time???

i think thatd be better.

willow
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well that would be a better way round it but apart from when im at college i never get time away from my kids at all.
in the beging of our relationship i had a baby sitter but now she is stopped baby siting because she is to old.
so its just a case to find someone to look after them while we can sort it out
thanks