MY NEPHEW WAS THE SAME WAY. THEN I WENT TO A WORKSHOP ON SENSORY ISSUES W/ CHILDREN. AFTER HEARING HOW SENSORY ISSUES CAN EFFECT US AND CHILDREN I HAD A DIFFERENT OUTLOOK ON THINGS. SOMETIMES THEY DON'T LIKE THE FEEL OF THE WATER ON THEIR HEADS OR YOU COULD BE RUBBING HER HEAD TOO LIGHTLY WHICH IS IRRITATING TO THEM OR TOO ROUGHLY. I DON'T KNOW BUT IT IS A THOUGHT.