hi,
i know how your feeling there
im 22 and i have a 5 year old daughter.
when she was about 18 months old i had to book her into the doctor for the same sort of thing.
she was bashing her head/face into the concrete floor or glass doors and it scared me to death. after all the worrying the doctor told me to ignore her and sure enough it stopped untill now..
now she is 5 and if things dont go her way or she gets angry she forces her fingernails into her forehead and hits herself in the face stuff like that ive tried explaining that its not good to do that because she will really hurt herself and shes told me it doesnt hurt her.
she says she does it "cos she wants to"
but i am currently having ALOT of problems with her and wondering if maybe its just my age.
if you do work something out i would really like to hear from you.
thanks and goodluck
I think sometimes too much is expected of children at school. Maybe if you you went into school and had a word explained the situation. Get them to back off. I start from the begining, giving her easy work to raise her confidence. Softly Softly. It sounds like a lack of confidence is crushing her inside and she can't deal with it. I agree that seeing the doctor is a must. But maybe she putting too much pressure on herself. Maybe if you can avoid the situation the self harm will stop and then gradually at her own pace start with the odd spelling. I honestly think that she needs some time out from the pressure.
