Yeah I know that I also did the same. I told my sister to use the the opportunity for a casual sex talk. The privacy thing is the biggest issue though. I think that we should be able to have our kids respect the fact that we have things that they are not to touch. The problem is how to instill that value
glad i'm not the only one :)
i guess the only way to instill any value is by example.
but she's only 11 and she's still got a lot to learn. maybe she won't do it again if they just told her how they felt about what she'd done.
i hope it turns out well for everyone