What do you do with a daughter who looses her temper with me (and her mother) very easily and tonight hit me twice on the shoulder before trying to hit me in the face?
She's tried that to me before - and only me.
Quite often there is a look of pure hatred in her eyes.

She says I wind her up. My wife says I should simply ignore her.

Whenever my wife and I talk about this it ends up in an argument and we end up not speaking.
I am really unhappy about this whole situation and would appreciate any advice.