Thankyou for your advice, very much appreciated and glad I am not alone! But I won't give up, parent partnership have advised me not to give up too.

I would urge you to contact Network 81. . . they helped me to fight the statementing process for my son
the law is compliacted and in my opinion schools worry more about budgets and finances rather than the needs of children who need something a little different to everyone else. Your daughter NEEDS a statement in order to secure her future schooling. . .speak to Eirwen Grenfell Essam. . she is a star. The web site has the contact details. . .just search on Network 81 and you'll find them.

Thankyou! I got in touch with them and they rang me today, they are going to help me.