hi,im new to this and really need some advice,im a mum of two,a girl 3 and a boy 5,the boy(Ben)has been in so much trouble at school recently,although he tells us he is being bullied,but there is no proof of this,i have spoken to his teacher on many occasions as he colours kid clothes and faces,cut up a kids dress,swore at another,broke a juice cup..but the thing is when he was at nursary last year he was a sweet boy and is still very sweet out of school!!i really dont know what to do as i feel bad for him as no kids want to play with him ....i hope some1 can give me some advice.

no offence but does he know what bullying actually is maybe invite another child round



yours sincerly
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void(0);p.s good luck

HI Stacy,
It sounds like your son is only behaving in this manner at school. The school needs to deal with this... you cannot. You are not at school with him... it is the teacher's job to make him behave there. I suggest you make an appointment with the teacher and ask what strategies the school is using to help your son. Ask for a review meeting. Be helpful..... explain there is none of this behaviour at home, and noe at nursery. Say your 'confused and concerned' as to why he is behaving this way at school. Ask the school how you can support the school in this matter. HOWEVER, you cannot solve this matter for the school.... the school has to d this.


Good luck.... keep us posted how it's going....