we have a 11 yr old son who behaviour is totally out of control hes been wild in class at school and apears to be very angree at something my sons mother caught him rubbing himself up against his younger brother whilst his brother was asleep and fully clothed my son was lying on top off him going through the motion we have spoken with our son but it seems we can not get through to him he has been expelled from school his mum has just come out of a violent relationship and ive just come back in his life after 5 years please can advice me please thank you mark salter

Parentingtips.com has a counseling line. You may want to seek advice. I hear it is really great. But I would start by recognizing the boys developing puberty and frustration. Also, diet may accelerate puberty. Don't punish. It is not his fault, he is frustrated and can't control himself and if you punish he will become violent out of despair and feeling worthless and failing to please you.