Try putting in methods such as star charts for them, and target behaviours such as getting along, playing nicely together, talking nicely to one another, etc. At the end of the day or week if they have all their stars they earn a reward. Feel free to contact me if you want more advice.

i would have asked her where she wanted to live and why. as well as telling ehr i loved her and stuff.

i would rather have a daughter who was happy and lived elsewhere than who lived with me and was unhappy.

when she tells you why she wants to live in this place she wants to move to, maybe then you can work on making her home with you more like that place.

dont feel like youve done anything wrong, you probably havent.