You are going through a rough time.....I think all the advice given to you was great. I myself send my kids to their room when I am frustrated. Sometimes, I lock myself in the bathroom so I don't lose my cool. It really works, and then you can figure out your "plan of action" and calm down, all at the same time. I am doing a book review on a great book, "Boundaries With Kids", written by Dr. Cloud and Dr. Townsend. I think it's full of great advice that might help your situation. If you're interested, you can find my review at:
http://www.writingup.com/blog/debrawhitledge
I've got several entries from the Boundaries book, and a few other things just for grins. I try to provide useful information in my blog, and avoid the useless, "here's my day" kind of stuff. Anyway, just thought I'd mention it!
Take care,
Debra
P.S.
I know what you mean about your kids meaning the world to you....I feel the same about mine.
