Cause: Emotional pain. Solution: look at your own. Method: emotional courage, honesty with self, trusting the process of being honest with yourself, getting interested in the hows and whys of what went on for you and how it is being 'acted out' by your children. Your children are a mirror, you have to look into it rather than think 'they' have the problem.
I do this work a lot with mums and dads and it works. Check out my web site and subscribe to my free reports on www.childproblem.co.uk. - it's quite a journey and new new way of thinking - thing is it works and solves rather than only controls and contains
Tell me something.When i was a child my mother and my father is devorced when i was 8.I never really knew my mother.I was molested and in a place of safety.Can that have any affect on my children's lives.Be honest
Hi Jackie,
Honestly? Yes. I truth, it's not what happens to us so mich as what we are allowed to get through. So we can have bad experiences and suffer no harm because we 'processed' the natural feeling it provoked in us. But many times when we suffer things like divorce and being molested we carry lotys of unfelt feelings into our adult livses. then our children act them out. So I would say your child is acting out how you feel. If you could find a way of getting into these feleings, and re-visiting these palces and processing and healing up those wounds you would do a greta service for your children. I so wish this facility was avaliable on the state but it isn't yet - are you UK based?
David
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