Well even though being bossy can be a problem when she is young your daughter will probably grow up to be a great organiser and leader.

Maybe you should have a look at a great book called Raising the Spirited Child can't remember the author but google the title and you will find it.

i think your little girl will stop being so bossy when she comes across another child who treats her that way, she will relise there are bigger fish in the pond.ive found that kids are sometimes better at teaching those lessons than us stuffy old grown-ups.