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Frank
Nov 13, 06 - 11:39 PM |
Where to meet people
I am Frank in Buena Park California and I have searched the internet for meeting new people. I can not find any web sites where we who are incontinent can go out and meet people. There are all kinds of groups to go to for people who have to wear diapers. But this does not cut it. Since the numbers of Incontinent people are going up, I feel that there should be a dating place for us or at least something. There is nothing I know of. Please send me an email someone.
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Caring
Mar 2nd, 2007 - 7:58 PM |
Re: Where to meet people
Wow. Zero responses. I think people are terrified of internet wierdos. I don't have a complete answer for you, but I do have a thought to share. One time while I was trying to learn how to cope with a new diagnosis, it occurred to me that when I was dreaming of Mr. Right, I wanted someone witty, funny, with a steady job...when I found a man with a great smile, a warm heart, kind words, a steady and decent paying job, I was soooo happy. On my list was never, "must be perfectly fit. An he wasn't. When I recovered from a surgery and found that I leaked from every hole, I was devestated. I hid it from my husband. I even wore tampons in my rear, and catheterized myself so I wouldn't leak urine on him during sex. Then he was diagnosed with a disorder that no one can see, but he is dying from it. Then I told him because it was really something that I could share that neither of us have perfect bodies, but with what we have, we give to each other fully.
Thus, I guess I would say, don't worry so much about finding someone with the same physical attributes. Almost anyone you find will have some physical imperfection, and you just deal with each others stuff as part of life and relationships.
Good Luck
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Jeff
Mar 30th, 2007 - 8:01 PM |
Re: Where to meet people
Keep in mind, if all you have in common is that fact that you're incontinent, then it's unlikely there will be much of a long term friendship.
People who wear diapers are just normal people. Most, you will have very little in common with. Once you've exhaust the subject of incontinence and various coping methods, there will be very little left to say. Once you get onto other topics, you may find that you really can't stand the person because of political differences, personality traits, or other characteristics.
I'd recommend trying to meet people who accept you as you are and whose company you enjoy.
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