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Michelle
Mar 20, 05 - 11:42 PM |
Disabilities and Romance
I am a twenty five year old female who is not in a romantic relationship now, but someday, I hope to have a special friend. How do people here deal with intimacy and stuff like that when one partner is in diapers?
City, State/Province: Genoa City, WI
Country: USA
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Dino
Mar 21st, 2005 - 12:38 AM |
Re: Disabilities and Romance
i have the same prob. In rehab they taught me how to walk, an dhow to dress. Vocational services is retrained me soI can go back t work. No one teaches you hopw to date again. Ho wthe hell are you supoose dto meet someone wering a diapr!
City, State/Province: NY
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mike
May 13th, 2005 - 9:44 PM |
Re: Disabilities and Romance
i found my girlfriend at a medical supply store. she and I both are fully incontent and met over a bag of diapers.
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Pat
Jun 1st, 2005 - 3:20 AM |
Re: Disabilities and Romance
Truly even though you may feel like you are the only person in the world wearing diapers who would like to date and feel there can't be anyone else like you the opposite is more true.
There are lots of people who are old enough to date that wear diapers. Some because they need to and now some because they want to. I think the same rules apply to dating and non-diaper relationships. You want to find someone who is honest, truthful and who accepts you as you are. The fact that you wear diapers shouldn't matter and may even be a plus.
Good luck and keep looking.
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Tom
Jun 11th, 2005 - 10:35 AM |
Re: Disabilities and Romance
I know how you feel. I felt I could never be romantic being a bed wetting about every night. I,m married now and couldn,t be happier. I did let my wife know about my "problem" very early. I quess I was seeing if it would scare her away. I was lucky. It might have surprised her a little at frist but she accepted it ok, I didn,t push anything on her. That's what I would suggest, let the person know earily. If they can,t handle it, try to not worry about it, you can find someone. Most likly that person will be better than most so it,s worth it to keep looking.
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Tom.Uk
Jul 4th, 2005 - 6:56 AM |
Re: Disabilities and Romance
Hi a relationship between two people is a special thing it is a thing that over time grows if a person whom has to wear nappies/diapers is self concious about their problem Then Please dont be ashamed if you meet a person 1st be straight with that person obviously in the comfort of your home! and tell the person that you have a physical problem and need to wear protection otherwise you make a mess!if that person is of any worth and they have any feelings towards that person they will accept you for you !if they dont then obviously they are not worth the Light !.As if I were to get involved with some one and they wore protection i would readily accept that person!
its not your fault Its theirs if they dont accept you . hope this is of help
You are not alone ! as a previous poster said there are thousands out there in the same position its just finding the right onefor you!.
best wishes,
Tom.uk
Country: United Kingdom
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dominicmarie
Aug 7th, 2005 - 1:29 AM |
Re: Disabilities and Romance
Michelle je voudrais bien parler avec vous ,friendly for france
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Mark
Aug 7th, 2005 - 5:13 AM |
Re: Disabilities and Romance
Hi there - my feeling is - depending on how long you have dealt with incon.. then the fact of it being a diaper is no different than a cath or leg-bag. The other side is that - what about those with other diseases or conditions - they also probably feel a sense of "they won't love/like me because". At first, when I started to have to wear diapers - because of my MS - I felt like the world would end. But - I look at it now as - I would rather wear a diaper than have wet pants. There will be some who won't deal with it - and plenty more who will, because they would love you - not your disease. Michelle, if you have confidence in who you are - and that no matter - diaper or not - you are a wonderful and loving person and deserve love in return. Best wishes... Mark
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keith
Aug 27th, 2005 - 9:17 AM |
Re: Disabilities and Romance
Hi as we all know its hard to find the right person it took a lot of understanding to even ask someone out so now I look for a friend rather than a date just because then if the person gets to know me the relationship can grow with any disability we feel shut out all I can say is don't look for a lover look for a friend and all good things will *** in the end michelle feel free to e-mail me I have lots of friends that are understanding of people and their disability I'm not a match maker but allways a friend with a ear or soft shoulder god bless
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clement leo
Jan 3rd, 2006 - 11:02 AM |
Re: Disabilities and Romance
hello I wear diapers and plasticpants, too but you have a disabulity it should be treated as such if the can't except it don't feel bad it is something you can;t help good luck bye
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ANGEL.
Jul 30th, 2006 - 9:09 PM |
Re: Disabilities and Romance
I HONESTLY COULD SAY I WOULDN'T HAVE A
PROBLEM OVER SOMEBODY USING & WEARING DIAPERS.
I HAVE CEREBRAL PALSEY & I honestly can say I'm
a diaper wearer 24/7.
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Parbuster
Aug 26th, 2006 - 1:48 AM |
Re: Disabilities and Romance
I had been chatting with a lady online (yes online dating works) met her, we hit it off but before our relatiohship became intimate I developed incontence due to a medical condition. I agonized about either telling her or just breaking things off. I chose to tell her and her response was so positive. She reassured me that it was me she wanted and it made no difference. The next day she told me she did lots of research o nthe wweb and told me that many people use diapers as sexual play. To make a long story shortthings have been great.
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joseph
Jan 24th, 2007 - 2:41 AM |
Re: Disabilities and Romance
i sympathize with each of you.i have had incontinence problems most of my life,bedwetting,abusive father,molestation at 7 by a teen uncle,ect.i am married with a family and travel for a living.
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